What to do when a spouse is arrested.


1. Don't Panic
First, take a deep breath. Tell yourself to remain calm. Few things are as emotionally traumatic as having your spouse accused of a crime. It seems like your entire world comes to a screeching halt. Careers are placed at risk and family life is disrupted. But, in order to keep you and your spouse from being overwhelmed by the criminal justice system you will have to keep calm.

2. Find out If Bond Has Been Set Or When It Will Be Set. Don't Insist
On Knowing The Details Right Away.

If your spouse is calling from jail, do not demand to be told the details of what happened. Your spouse will likely be calling your from a booking desk in front of a police officer or from a crowded jail cell. He or she will likely be in shock themselves may not have things sorted out in their own mind yet. Innocent or not, your spouse may be reluctant to tell you the details of the events surrounding his arrest. At this moment, they are angry, ashamed, terrified, and - utterly helpless. There will be plenty of time later for sorting out what happened. Right now, your spouse's most immediate needs are a bondsman and competent legal advice. Take a second deep breath. Find out what he is charged with, whether a bond has been set, and if so, what the amount is. If no bond has been set, find out when a bond will be set. Ask to speak with the jailer or desk sergeant if necessary.

3. Encourage Your Spouse Not To Waive Their Right To Remain Silent
Or Their Right To Legal Counsel

Tell your spouse to remain calm. Let him or her know that you will be working as quickly as possible to get them out of jail. Remind them of their right to remain silent and tell them to use it! My experience both as a police officer and as a criminal defense lawyer has taught me that it is rarely a good idea for anyone accused of a crime to speak with the police immediately after their arrest. Even an innocent person can rarely help himself or herself by talking to the police immediately after arrest. Remember the police arrested your spouse because they believed they were guilty of a crime. Anything a person says immediately after his arrest is usually construed and interpreted against them. At this point, the investigation is focused on gathering evidence to prove your spouse's guilt, not figuring out whether they are innocent. And, once a statement is made, it cannot be taken back.

The decision to waive the 5th Amendment privilege against self-incrimination should never be made amidst the confusion, uncertainty and fear that reign in the first few hours after an arrest. The decision is serious and usually irreversible. It should never be made without informed advice of competent legal counsel. If the lawyer determines that it's in your spouse's interest, a statement can always be given at a later time. But, it is usually best not to say anything at this point.

4. Bond Your Spouse Out Of Jail If Possible
Time for your third deep breath. Now, go and get your husband or wife out of jail. In most jurisdictions, you'll have to post a bond. Bonds are usually posted in cash, though you may be able to use a property bond if you have sufficient unencumbered property, or you may be able to use a bondsman. A bondsman will post the bond for you and charge you a percentage of the amount of the bond as his fee. If you post a cash bond, then you will normally obtain the cash back at the conclusion of the legal proceedings. If you use a bondsman, then you will not be refunded any money. Typically, the fee a bondsman may charge is set by statute. In Louisiana, that is 12% of the face amount of the bond. There may be additional fees charged by the jailer that will also need to be paid. However, these are usually not very great. Resist the urge to "Let him sit there and get himself out." Leaving anyone in jail until the case is resolved is rarely a good idea. Getting a spouse back to work, is the single most important step on the road to getting things back to normal. If you are unable to post bond because the amount is too high to make even using a bondsman unaffordable, or because no bond has been set, immediately contact legal counsel.

5. Retain competent legal counsel
Time for a final deep breath. Now, go hire a lawyer. Be prepared to spend some money. You are protecting the investment you've already made in your life partner. Resist the temptation to simply allow your spouse to be represented by the public defender. While public defenders generally are fine lawyers who are hard working, sincere, caring, and dedicated, they are also generally overloaded with cases, under-resourced, and understaffed. While no lawyer can guarantee the outcome of any case, a competent, experienced, and creative criminal defense lawyer will be worth what you pay for him or her. Look for a lawyer who is a member of the National Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers or your state association of Criminal Defense Lawyers. It is a rare case where an experienced criminal defense lawyer can't be of some help. At the very least, he or she will keep the system from overwhelming you and your spouse. At very best, he or she may be successful in having the charges dismissed and possibly having the arrest expunged from the public record.

6. Support Your spouse As They Go Through "The System"
A criminal charge should never be taken lightly. A conviction remains with a person long after any fine is paid and any probation or jail time is served. A criminal conviction deprives a person of many basic human and civil rights. It may lead to the loss of a job or government benefits. And, it will seriously limit employment and educational opportunities. In doing so, it may indirectly lead to further criminality. Stand beside your spouse as much as you can. It will be difficult, particularly if the charge involves a violent crime or sex offense. Ours is a Criminal Justice System which is often hostile to claims of innocence and largely deaf to pleas for mercy or understanding, Innocent or guilty, your spouse needs your support, monetarily, emotionally and spiritually. People make mistakes. Some mistakes are more serious than others. Even if your spouse is guilty of a criminal act, it doesn't mean they are going to be a criminal for the rest of their life. It means they need the help and assistance of a competent criminal lawyer. Do not be afraid, ashamed or hesitant to call one.

7. Request appointment or Make Case inquiry

Our charge for an initial office consultation is only $100.00. ($150.00 for after hours consultation) This is credited toward the fee for the representation if we are retained to represent your spouse. If your spouse is still incarcerated, arrangements can be made to meet with you and have a phone conference with your spouse from the jail. Or, a jail visit can be arranged. Click here if you would like our office to contact you to arrange for a confidential appointment at a convenient time. Click here if you live outside of northwest Louisiana and would like to arrange for a telephone consultation. Click here if you would like to find out whether your case is the kind of matter we would accept.